Understanding Others

Insights and thoughts
which help us understand
those around us.


Understand your spouse.

People are all genetically
different, no one is exactly
the same, so each person
has to be understood

What affects a person as
a child, makes them different
from everybody else.

One may need more attention
and tender care, and
understanding to offset their
growing up years.

A man thinks differently than
a woman, he needs respect
from his spouse.

The woman thinks differently
from a man, she needs love
from her spouse.

Visualize a circle with respect
on one edge and love on the
other, balancing each other.

If a man doesn't get respect,
he tends to give a cold shoulder
to his spouse.

If a woman does not feel loved
by her spouse she will show no
respect to her spouse.

This results is fighting!

If you feel your wheel is off
balance, stop and take note
where on the circle you are,
make the correction.

Love and forgiveness go hand
in hand.

A female has a bigger size of
the frontal brain than a man.
This is where she spends more
of her time figuring out what
she has just heard.

She goes deeper in what is said
to her. She doesn't see the big
picture right off, but rather
loops around in there, in the
front of her brain looking at
the finer details.

The male has a larger back part
of the brain, this where he
gets the big picture right
away, but misses out in the
fine details.

One can quickly see why a
female and male do not
understand each other.

The perfect situation is where
both the male and female
realize their differences and
work together in understanding
each other.

Many the time as a male I
have rushed ahead with
something without the finer
details and got myself in trouble.
Both the male and female input
is needed for perfection.

Ever wonder why when you
buy someone a gift, they don't
really fully seem to
appreciate the thought?

What has just happened is that
person does not have a full
appreciate for gifts, this can be
normal for that person, it is just
not their thing.
They may say thank you, but
would rather have had words of
affirmation or quality time
spent together.

Search the other person for one
of these, points listed.
When you know which it is, then
you will have found their sweet spot.
Check over the list and you will
best know how to make an impact
on that person.

1/ gifts. (Gifts of Love)

2/ affirmation.
(Words of appreciation)

3/ quality time.
(Time spent together)

4/ Service
(helping out)

5/ Physical Touch
(touching and sex)

Most people will stand out in one
of these on the list, but some may
have more than one.


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